Saturday, February 25, 2006

enneagrams








>the Perfectionist
Test finished!
you chose CZ - your Enneagram type is ONE.


"I do everything the right way"



Perfectionists are realistic, conscientious,
and principled. They strive to live up to their
high ideals.


How to Get Along with Me



  • Take your share of the responsibility so I
    don't end up with all the work.
  • Acknowledge my achievements.
  • I'm hard on myself. Reassure me that I'm fine
    the way I am.
  • Tell me that you value my advice.
  • Be fair and considerate, as I am.
  • Apologize if you have been unthoughtful.
    It will help me to forgive.
  • Gently encourage me to lighten up and to laugh
    at myself when I get uptight, but hear my worries
    first.

What I Like About Being a One



  • being self-disciplined and able to accomplish
    a great deal
  • working hard to make the world a better place
  • having high standards and ethics; not
    compromising myself
  • being reasonable, responsible, and dedicated
    in everything I do
  • being able to put facts together, coming to good
    understandings, and figuring out wise solutions
  • being the best I can be and bringing out the best
    in other people

What's Hard About Being a One



  • being disappointed with myself or others when my
    expectations are not met
  • feeling burdened by too much responsibility
  • thinking that what I do is never good enough
  • not being appreciated for what I do for people
  • being upset because others aren't trying as hard
    as I am
  • obsessing about what I did or what I should do
  • being tense, anxious, and taking things too
    seriously

Ones as Children Often



  • criticize themselves in anticipation of criticism
    from others
  • refrain from doing things that they think might
    not come out perfect
  • focus on living up to the expectations of their
    parents and teachers
  • are very responsible; may assume the role of
    parent
  • hold back negative emotions ("good children aren't
    angry")

Ones as Parents



  • teach their children responsibility and strong
    moral values
  • are consistent and fair
  • discipline firmly

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy
Discover the 9 Types of People
HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages


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You chose CZ

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  • BZ
    (FIVE)
  • >CX (TWO)
  • CY
    (SIX)







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